By Ivan Neshev
Dating has never being an easy job. Not for male nor for female. Living in the era of fast moving technology, social media and tons of dating apps, makes it even harder. So how are we supposed to find the perfect match? The dating coach and expert Hayley Quinn has the answer.
Coming from a small village in Cornwall, Quinn has had a humble childhood. She started working at the age of thirteen. After a lot of hard work she got accepted in one of UK’s most prestigious universities - UCL.
“I had to work hard and I had to study a lot, but in order to achieve something, you have to put some effort,” she said.
Working as a ghostwriter for a blog, Quinn came across a show called Pick Up Artists. Although shocked at what they were teaching the men to do, Quinn noticed they also build social skills and how to connect with the others. That inspired her and in 2013 she finally created her own brand.
“Creating your own brand is not an easy job, especially for a woman, especially in this business. But also, it is not impossible,” Quinn said.
Hayley Quinn’s success is on going and growing. Up to date she has a highly successful YouTube channel. Her expertise has been featured throughout numerous media platforms such as BBC, Channel 4, 4 Music, ITV, Fox and Sky news. Her opinions were published in Cosmopolitan, The Guardian, Elle, The Times, The Observer (NYC) and many more. She has spoken at two TEDx events (one in UK and one in USA), after the success of her appearance on TEDx Talk.
“Working for her is an amazing opportunity,” Tina Atlagic, Hayley Quinn’s assistant said.” She is incredible and I am learning so much from her. It is great that she is giving job opportunities for UCL graduates.”
According to Quinn online dating can be very useful, but very hard and tricky. “There are so many platforms out there that you can easily find the perfect one for you and sign in.
However the hardest part comes after,”she said. According to her the long boring messages and the time for someone to reply back can harm your confidence. “It is not easy and you have to prepare for rejection, “she adds.
As for her method, Quinn describes it as an “approach coming from districtly female gaze prospective”. She believes that everyone can better himself and transform not only his dating life, but also his self esteem and confidence.
“She is amazing. I had too meeting with her and I feel better. It’s not only about finding love or date. It’s about gaining confidence,” Mariya Callas said.